never disagree with him never ask him for advice never tell him about your other relationships never use a word differently thatn how he would use it never tell him about your interests never tell him your feelings never tell him your problems never tell him your aspirations never tell him your ideas never tell him about your hobbies never give him any indication that you are capable of independent thought never criticize him never question him never make any mistake whatsoever never do anything he wouldn't do never show emotion never be anything other than a doll he can play around with until he gets bored and throws you away never exist in his presence as a transfeminine person